Something to think: Give & take

"When you really matter to someone, that person will always make time for you. No excuses, no lies and no broken promises"

OK. I rate 5/10 to this saying. There should be another saying to reply this saying and perhaps it should sound more or less like this, "When you realize you're matter to someone, make effort to give back what you've been given. Give and take is the secret ingredient to a successful & sacred relationship"


When your partner sacrifices their family time just to make time for you, don't ever take it for granted by using it only to satisfy your need. Why don't you make an effort to make yourself welcome among your partner's family? It's worth a try. If you're not successful into buying the whole family to like you, you'll have great chance to appear in the "Monster In Law" reality show in Bio channel! Wahahaha!

Ok...ok.. seriously! It isn't fair for you to buy all your partner's time just for you & your side of the family. Your partner's family have the right to get to know you well before giving their child away to you. Your relationship isn't always gonna be as beautiful as it is now. Sooner or later you will face far more challenging ups and downs and by that time, family bond will be very crucial as it will be very useful for the sake of fixing your relationship.

When problems arises, I'm sure things will get bad when you go back to your parents to complain and they reply "I knew this will happen! I never really like him/her since she/he never really get along with us"

And it gets worse when you refer to your partner's family and they said, "Who the heck are you to complain about my kid?!"

I may not be well experienced in this, but with 3 exs, I think I can catch up well in the game of love. My learning process was hard but it all worth it. :)

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