


From these slimming down shows on TV, I've absorbed many things not only about dieting but the psychological flow as well. Well, I'm not entirely qualified to talk about psychology but what I observed was enough to make me think. So let me just say things I wanna say in my simple way.

At the end of every week, the team that losses will have one member of the team to be sent home. The won team will determine who goes home by casting a vote. Since the grand prize for the whole game are to go to the 1 final winner, I'm sure the voting decision were blinded by their own needs and interest alone. It's a big BS if the voter voted a person out for the sake of their team. Lol! Such a noble person... I will buy that reason if the final prize goes to the TEAM that survive till the very end of the show.
I admit that fighting spirit is crucial in life. It helps you shine and overcome life challenges and obstacles. However, main ingredient that FAT people need in order to slim down and stay that way is POSITIVE THINKING. It is undeniable that positive thinking is mutually related with fighting spirit, but if fighting spirit overcomes positive thinking, things are not gonna turn out good. Especially those TBL winners who didn't get the chance to learn much of positive attitude and thinking during the show due to lack of focus to the real objective when they joined the show. What happened to them now? They gained back at least half of their weight back.
As viewers, we must be able to differentiate the main objectives from the marketing scheme. As TBL contestants, I'm sure that you're not in for the intentional drama to rise the viewers numbers to the show. You are no businessman or investor to the show. If you gain popularity from the show, it will only be temporary until the new season of TBL comes up. What will you do when your lime-light time's up? Back to the old routine and get fat again?
Common future TBL contestants, focus on the main objective please. Listen to your coach carefully and try to understand the real messages behind their commands. From what I recalled, neither Gillian, Bob or other trainers ever encourage contestants to go against the opposite team. What they said mostly were, "Show the ____ team what you've got!". But what did the contestants said in the personal interview? "I'm gonna crush you ___ team!" or "____team. You're going down!". Does that still sound positive to you? Well, maybe if it's a sport competition, but we're talking about life transforming mission here!
That's why I like the USA TBL families show more than the usual TBL show. Although they will be emerged into two groups on the 5th week, the show's weren't the same as the usual TBL grouping concept. The positive thinking and attitude were still obvious even until the very end of the show. Why? Because in small teams at the beginning of the game, the main objective distractions were less due to the lack of mad leader-wannabe members. So the chances to focus and absorb the real life-time lesson was greater and much more rewarding in life.
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